I am still not settled on how to communicate this most effectively but it seems to me that in this context the opposite of comparison may be contentment. Contentment in my position in Christ. Contentment in the role in which He has placed me. Contentment in the way He has gifted me. Contentment in the way in which He has allowed me to serve Him.
I find that often I am not content with the way my Lord has chosen to employ me.