Second, I respect each of their understanding of the Word of God.
Third, I actively seek out their opinion.
That happened last week. I saw something in Ephesians that I wanted them to think through with me. I sent them a portion of my study. One of the men sent me back a long response and partial critique. I am traveling this week and have not had time to look at it in detail, but scanning it I can tell there is both some valuable insight there along with some things that on the first read with which I may not agree.
But he did me the honor of working through my thinking and responding in kind. I need that. You need that. It is more valuable than words can express.