If I am honest, I have grieved and pained the Lord in that way. In the midst of trouble it is sometimes hard to remember what He has done for me. Thus the need for journals and beyond that to review those journals to remember what God has done. But even with that tool, I tend to try to solve problems on my own, trusting my ability, my creativity, and not the Lord. Grieving and paining Him.
I am dealing with an issue now. It is one I can either choose to trust Him or else try to solve on my own. I am praying – at some level I feel like David in Psalm 119:32, the only way I will be able not to grieve and pain Him is through His enabling grace.
On my own, I am too weak.