Truth is truth. We may not like it, but it is. I have faced truths in my life which frankly I did not like and did not want to accept. They were still true. I worked hard at making them not true, in some cases coming up with elaborate constructs to alter the reality. Did not work, they were still true.
As believers we are bound by what God says is true. We may argue with Him; we will lose. In order to find truth we have to first acknowledge that we have a preconceived idea of what it should be. Then we have to check the data, in most cases for us, the Bible to see what it says. If it does not align with what we think is true, we probably need to adjust. The problem is that we can find “experts” who will just about validate any position we want to take. So we cannot rely on experts. We have to rely on the Word of God and the Helper He sent to lead us into all truth, John 16:13.